How’s your EQ? What is EQ, you ask? EQ, or Emotional Intelligence, refers to a person's ability to recognize, understand, manage, and effectively use their own emotions, as well as their capacity to perceive and influence (in a non- manipulative way) the emotions of others. It involves such interpersonal skills as empathy, self-awareness, self-regulation, social skills, and motivation. Developed by psychologist Daniel Goleman, the concept of emotional intelligence has gained widespread recognition for its impact on various aspects of life, including personal relationships, professional success, and overall well-being. People with a high EQ can navigate social complexities, communicate effectively, build strong relationships, and handle challenging situations with emotional resilience. The significance of Emotional Intelligence (EQ) versus Intelligence Quotient (IQ) depends on the context and the specific demands of a situation. While IQ traditionally measures cognitive abilities and problem- solving skills, EQ focuses on emotional awareness and interpersonal skills. In many professional and social settings, EQ can be equally or even more crucial than IQ. A high emotional intelligence is often associated with effective leadership, strong interpersonal relationships, and successful collaboration. It contributes to better communication, conflict resolution, and adaptability—all essential qualities in diverse and dynamic environments. However, the interplay between EQ and IQ is complex, and both have their places in different aspects of life. Ideally, a balance of both can lead to well-rounded personal and professional development. There is no doubt that Emotional Intelligence (EQ) stands as a crucial pillar in personal and professional success, transcending conventional metrics of intelligence. A high EQ fosters effective communication, interpersonal relationships, and conflict resolution, vital in today's collaborative work environments. Individuals with elevated emotional intelligence exhibit resilience in the face of challenges, navigate social complexities adeptly, and lead with empathy. In leadership roles, EQ becomes a linchpin, influencing decision-making and team dynamics. In essence, EQ complements intellectual prowess, paving the way for a well-rounded and emotionally resilient individual capable of thriving in diverse social landscapes. I’m going to go out on a limb and say that I believe most Rotarians have higher than average EQs. How else could we place service above self and live by the Four Way Test? ��
Lynette Wilke - Always dedicated to Rotary Youth Exchange, she is also serving on the District Governor Selection Committee. Application deadline is November 30, 2023. More details on our District Website www.rotaryd5890.org
Brittany Johnson - Lead a food drive at Walsh Elementary School and it surpassed everyone's expectations!
Dr Nick Giannone and Wind Nguyen attended the Harvest for the Hungry Fall Fundraising Dinner on 11/11/23. I twas held at the Doris Williams Lake Jackson Civic Center. At the end of September the following crops were harvested: red and green okra, watermelons, yellow squash, cucumbers, eggplant, and butternut squash, The recipients included Houston Food Bank, The Food Basket Interfaith Food Bank, BCDC Brazoria County Dream Center, and Brazosport Care Food Pantry.
Robin Charlesworth - Recently voted as Vice-President of the ICC Ukraine-USA to facilitate efforts to support Disaster Relief to Ukraine. She has been serving as our District 5890 Representative and they meet twice monthly via zoom due to the continued need for support since the war.
President Stan - Our sincere condolences are extended to Stan whose son passed this week. Please lift this family up in your prayers.
Leadership expert Mike Robbins explains the difference between being recognized for performance and genuinely appreciated for who you are. Filmed at the GGSC's November 2017 conference, Gratitude and Well-Being at Work. Mike Robbins is a former professional baseball player and author. His work focuses on appreciation, teamwork, leadership and emotional intelligence.
You can start the holiday season on a charitable note by donating on Giving Tuesday, 27 November.
Why should Rotary be your charity of choice?
Because our 1.2 million members see a world where people unite and take action to create lasting change — across the globe, in our communities, and in ourselves.
Here are six reasons to donate to Rotary.
1. We fight disease around the world
For decades, Rotary has been a leader in the battle against polio and has kept the pressure on as worldwide cases plummeted from 350,000 in 1988 to only 15 cases so far this year. We’re closer than ever to ending this devastating disease.
Your impact will be even greater, thanks to a 2-to-1 match from the Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation. All donations (up to $50 million) to end polio will be tripled, providing critical funding to our work to create a polio-free world.
2. We teach people to read
Our goal is to strengthen the capacity of communities to support basic education and literacy, reduce gender disparity in education, and increase adult literacy. We support education for all children and literacy for children and adults through mentoring, scholarships, teacher training, and access to learning opportunities.
3. We build peace
Each year, armed conflict and persecution displace, injure, or kill millions of people. More than 90 percent of them are civilians, and half are children.
Rotary projects provide training that fosters understanding and provides communities with the skills to resolve conflicts. Our members are taking action to address the underlying causes of conflict, including poverty, inequality, ethnic tension, lack of access to education, and unequal distribution of resources.
4. We provide clean water, sanitation
The statistics are alarming. Worldwide, one person in every 10 does not have access to safe water, and 2.3 billion people lack access to adequate sanitation. One consequence: 900 children under age five die each day from diarrheal diseases.
Having clean water and sanitation is a human right. Rotary members integrate water, sanitation, and hygiene into education projects. When children learn about disease transmission and practice good hygiene, they miss less school. When people, especially children, have access to clean water, sanitation, and hygiene, they lead healthier and more successful lives. Rotary is helping to make clean water available to everyone by 2030.
5. We grow local economies
Nearly 800 million people live on less than $1.90 a day. Rotary is working to strengthen local entrepreneurs and community leaders.
We know that one solution doesn’t fit every problem, so we work with people to help them help themselves.
We help Tanzanians with albinism find safe, healthy livelihoods. In Ecuador, Rotary has made 250 microloans and trained more than 270 people in job skills and business management. In Arkansas, USA, we worked with Heifer International to extend the growing season for farmers and help them find new customers.
6. We save mothers and children
An estimated 5.9 million children under the age of five die each year because of malnutrition, inadequate health care, and poor sanitation. More than 800 women die every day from birth- and pregnancy-related complications.
Rotary is saving lives by supplying birthing kits, immunizations, neonatal care equipment, and medical training.
With access to quality care, mothers and children live longer and healthier lives, and Rotary is providing that care.
PLEASE DONATE TO THE ROTARY FOUNDATION ON GIVING TUESDAY THIS MONTH.
AS ROTARIANS, IT IS IMPORTANT THAT WE SUPPORT OUR ROTARY FOUNDATION, YOU MAY GIVE TO THE ANNUAL FUND OR TO POLIO PLUS WHEN YOU LOGIN TO MYROTARY.
Please pay your dues in the amount of our annual amount of $200 prior to the December 18, 2023. It can be accomplished on the club website via PayPal or a check may be mailed to Treasurer, PDG Ed Charlesworth (11407 Hylander Dr. Houston, TX. 77070). If you choose to use PayPal you will also find an option to pay an additional $6.46 to cover the PayPal fees. Remember, all donations for the club's Foundation are separate accounts as are donations to the Rotary Foundation which are made through the MyRotary site. We are all volunteers and we appreciate you taking action to remain an Active Member of the Rotary e-Club of Houston.
If you make the decision to terminate your membership, this must be done in writing to the Board of Directors and your dues must be current prior to successfully leaving our club. We must receive this information before the end of this month or additional dues will be required. The reason for additional dues to be paid is that our club is committed to paying Rotary International and District 5890 dues based on membership numbers at the end of December.
Our Houston E-Club community service theme for October & November is “Food for the Needy & Veteran Support” – Concentrating service efforts to make the lives of those less fortunate more comfortable as we head into fall and the Thanksgiving season. Three areas of specific needs are shown below with connection opportunities to volunteer and help in the Houston area. For those outside Houston look for similar needs and support opportunities in your community …. These needs are everywhere this time of year. Be proactive and represent Rotary wherever you are and please do so often!
The Four-Way Test is a nonpartisan and nonsectarian ethical guide for Rotarians to use for their personal and professional relationships. The test has been translated into more than 100 languages, and Rotarians recite it at club meetings:
Of the things we think, say or do
First, Is it the TRUTH?
Second, Is it FAIR to all concerned?
Third, Will it build GOODWILL and BETTER FRIENDSHIPS?
and Fourth, Will it be BENEFICIAL to all concerned?